Wednesday, April 1, 2020

The Nest of Love


    
The Nest of Love


Since last few days, a bird was frequenting my home and its mate soon followed. Throughout the day, the couple would chatter and make lovely sounds. The male bird was jet black in color with a beautiful dark red collar. The female was of aslate color and slightly smaller in size. They selected a corner in our verandah. Soon they started to build a nest there.

Day and night, they would bring shreds of paper, grass, tiny branches of shrubs and twine these to make a tiny yet beautiful nest. We eagerly observed the nest grow and soon enough it was ready. It took about 5 days for them to build the nest. However, all of a sudden, the chattering stopped. What could have happened? It was then that we discovered that the female had laid eggs. They were off-white eggs with a brownish tinge. Throughout the day, she would sit on the eggs and incubate them. This she would do for hours together. Sitting atlike that, she looked bigger than her nest. Her wings barely fit in her home as she sat there waiting patiently. 

It became a routine for me to see the birds before going to work. And the first thing I would do after coming back was to peep in and look for any signs of a new born. The days passed by and every day seemed to drag on. I was not able to hide my eagerness anymore. I wasnt the only one who was excited. My kids were just as eager. The air at home was filled with enthusiasm.

“Papa, what are they doing?”, asked my youngest daughter.
“They have built a home and they have laid the eggs, and soon tiny babies will be born,” replied   my wife.
“The way we were born?” asked the tiny tot. My wife smiled.

The birds remained silent throughout the period of incubation. There was not a sound. And soon the tiny, little ones were born. They were a featherless   bundle of muscle mass, with closed eyes and tiny beaks. We all congratulated each other, as if there was a newborn in our own family.

The mother bird brought feed and fed the new borns. The father bird was always nearby keeping a close watch.

Often, the kids would be seen alone and protruding their beaks, as if they were very hungry. Then, the mother would arrive, carrying some insects for the young ones. It seemed like time barely passed, yet the kids had started to grow. They started making noise and the chattering began, anew. The hungry kids would shout as if they were demanding food and the mother bird would reply with a call as if to assure them. The moment she would arrive with the food, the chattering and eagerness would increase. They would jostle among each other to get their share.

One day, early in the morning, I got a call from my hospital. It was an emergency and I was to come immediately. I got ready in a huff and rushed to the hospital. As I was nearing the gate, a frail voice called to me. I turned around. It was my mother, calling me back.

My mother is about to complete her ninth decade. She has tremors in her hands and tongue. She is lean and thin. Her face is full of wrinkles that hold years of wisdom and experience. She contains all of the love, affection and strength I need. For me, She is my home. I have always remained a tiny child for her. She was calling me, asking me to come back.

“Why don’t you have some food and then go to the hospital. After all, your return is unpredictable.”, said my mother with a trembling voice. She had slowly come out of her room, walked with shaky steps up to the door and then made her way to me. Even in the most urgent situations, I could not say no to her. I turned around and walked to the dining table. She served me breakfast which I gulped down hurriedly. She looked relieved when I finished eating

As I started on my way back to the hospital, I heard the chattering of the birds again. I looked up at the nest - the mother bird was feeding her children.

All mothers are same, I realized.

Eyes the most divine gift



Out of all the six senses the most divine one is vision – we see the beautiful creation of the master crafter  because of  eyes. The very  thought of being blind  sends a chill in the spine. 
In the mythology , Mahabharat mentions  Dhritarashtra, the king of Kaurav clan who was born blind. Not to be looked upon as a better half , his wife Gandhari  did the penance  by tying  a piece of cloth on her  eyes .  Dhritarashtra ruled Hastinapur  but  the problems  occurred  not because of lack of vision of  his eyes but also because he had lost his inner vision , the ability to look inside oneself . The war of Mahabharat  was a result of lack of insight  rather than out-sight .
Mahabharat  also mentions about divine  vision gifted to Sanjay  , a trusted  charioteer of  Dhritarashtra by  Vyasa Rishi , who could see the happenings  on the war front  like the way we see television  now a days . Lord Krishna  blessed  Arjuna  with divine eyes   so that he could see the divine  universal form of the lord. 
In 11thCentury , eyes of great Rajput King  Prithviraj Chauhan  were burnt with   red hot  iron rod by his tormentor Sultan Shahbuddin Muhammad Ghori  who was earlier  defeated by Prithviraaj Chauhan , but was set free as a gesture of mercy .Ghauri attacked for a second time the next year, Prithviraj was defeated and captured at the Second Battle of Tarain (1192). Ghori  did not show any mercy, he took Prithviraj to Ghazni and blinded him.As per the history , as directed by poet  Chand Bardai  through a poem , Prithviraj  killed Mohammad Gori by a single arrow  .
In  15th-century blind saint, poet and musician,Surdas composed devotional songs dedicated to Lord Krishna.Surdas is said to have written and composed a hundred thousand songs in his magnum opus the 'Sur Sagar' (Ocean of Melody), out of which only about 8,000 are extant.He  penned  poems of divine love  . He has described the beauty of  Kanha  , the childhood  of lord Krishna , in such meticulous way as if he could see lord Krishna in reality. 
 Bollywood  have special place for eyes – who can forget the beautiful eyes of Lalita Pawar . Her  eyes expressed so many emotions at same time  especially when it came to anguish of mother in law . The blind girls role played by  Rani Mukherjee  and role of her teacher Amitabh in the film Blackwill be remembered  for their superb acting . Lovely heart touching songs were  created on eyes – unforgettable Rafi sang Teri aankho ke shiva duniya me rakha kya hai, to present day ankhiyon se goli maare and woh ladki aankh maare  all depicted naughty eyes.  .
Medically speaking ,  the loss of vision could be due to cataract , glaucoma  , diabetic and hypertensive retinopathy , vitamin A deficiency and  eye injuries.  
Interestingly most of these can be prevented and also can be treated  with very good result. With the national health program started in 1970s of  free supply of Vitamin A to children , xerophthalmia has become a disease of past but can still be found in extreme malnourishment.  

मौका अच्छा है



ज़िंदगी थम सी गई है  

पहले  वाले  सुहावने  दिनों  ने कह  दिया  है  बायबाय  !!!
अब  तो  घर  के  चहुँ  ओर लक्ष्मणरेखा है,  
पांव  बढ़ाया नहीं  कि रावण  का  ख्याल आता है 

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अब  आते हैं  वो  दिन यादजब  हमें  केशकर्तनालय 
में  " चंदूनाईद्वारा प्रवचित  दिव्य-ग्यान  प्राप्त होता था  

'चुनावी माहौल'  से लेकर सचिन की बल्लेबाजी'पप्पु के जोक्ससे लेकर 'मोदीजीके राजनैतिक फैसलों की व्याख्या,वह चुटकी बजाते कर लेता था  

चंदूनाईकी विद्याभंडार और विभिन्न दर्शनग्राही चाह देखकर तो हम केशकर्तन ग्राहकगण दातों तले उँगली दबाते रह जाते हैं 

चंदूनाईकी ज्ञान-परिधि असीमित है । अपने ज्ञान बंटन के मध्य  ज़नाब अपने उस्तरे को विश्राम देते हैंतत्पश्चात वे अपने जेब से प्लास्टिक की एक पुड़िया निकालकर उसके अंदर रखे खैनी को बाएं हाथ में लेकर एक चमचमाती डिबिया 
दूसरे जेब से निकालते हैंडिबिया में रखे सफेद चुना लेकर खैनी को अपने अंगूठे से अच्छी 
तरहा मसलते हैंफिर दो तीन बार धमाधम दूसरी हथेली से खैनी को ठोकते हुए  बाएं हथेली के दो उँगली से अपने निचले होंठ को 
दबाकर दाहिने हाथ में रखे खैनीचूना मिश्रण को मुख में अर्पण करते हैं कुछ देर में उनके मुख पर एक अजीब सी दिव्य आभा मंडराती है,  हमें 
ज्ञात हो जाता है कि उनके मस्तिष्क में विचार तरंगों को फिर से गति 
मिल गई है उनके ज्ञान सागर में लहरें पुनज्वारभाटा की तरह उछल रहीं हैं 
अब ज़नाब फिर से अपना व्याख्यान आरंभ कर देते हैं
अब की बार शब्द मुख में स्थित खैनी से छनकर निकलते हैं और 
कर्तनालय में मौजूद हम सभी अज्ञानी श्रोतागण  फिर से  मंत्रमुग्ध हो "चंदुलाल"  की वाणी का श्रवण करते हुए ज्ञानसागर में गोता 
लगाने लगते हैं 

कोई भी व्याख्यान में खलल डाले 'चंदुभैयाको यह कतई ना भाता है । उसके मुताबिक इससे उसका लिंक टूट जाता हैफिर भी हमने एक दिन हिम्मत कर पूछ ही लिया
चंदू भैय्या,आप यह खैनी खाना बंद क्यों नहीं कर देते?"
चंदूनाई"  ने तपाक् से जवाब दिया, " क्यूं बंद करें? "
हमने कहा, " आईना देखो "
अब केश कर्तनालय में तो आईनों की कमी नहींजिधर देखो,  उधरआईना  
चंदूनाई"  ने आईने में झांका माथा देखा,  आँखें देखी,  गाल देखे,  ठुठनी भी देखीकेश भी देखेफिर कहा, "क्यूंसब  ठीक ही तो है"
हमने कहा, "चंदू  भैय्या,  अपना मुख तो खोलिए"
लो खोला"
"अब अपनी दंतावली देखिए"
"देख लिया"
"क्या देखा? "
"कुछ गलत नहींसब कुछ सही है", चंदुलाल ने भरोसे से कहा 
"आपकी दंतावली देखिए महाराज,  सफेद दांत घिसघिस कर पीले और कत्थई रंग के हो गए हैं"
चंदूनाई"  का दिमाग चकरायाउसने अपने दांत तो देखे थे
लेकिन ख्याल नहीं किया था कि इतने घिस गए 
रुंऑसे सूरत से कहा, " अब का करें डाक्साब"
अब आया ऊंट पहाड़ के नीचेमैंने सोचा अब दर्शन शास्त्र में गोता लगाने की बारी मेरी थी 
उत्साहित होकर कहा "दांत ही नहीं खराब होते,चंदू भैय्या,     मुख में कर्क रोग भी हो सकता है "
"ये करक रोग का होत हैडाक्साब ? "
"कर्क रोग यानी कैन्सर"
जन साधारण आज हिंदी से ज्यादा अंग्रेजी समझता है अब मेरी बात  चंदूनाई  के पल्ले पड़ी 
"कैन्सर !"
"हां,  कैन्सर । मुख का कैन्सरगले का कैंसर,  अन्न नली का कैंसर और जो धुम्रपान करते हैं,  उनको फुफ्फुसीय यानी छाती का कैंसर "
"लेकिन का करें डाक्साब,  मुंआ ये आदत ही ना छुटे "  चंदूनाई  अपना भरोसा खो चुका था 
"धीरज से और मन की शक्ति से काम लोगे,  तब ना छुटेगा,  ये 
मुंआ गंदा आदत," मैंने कहा

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कॉरोनाके चलते आज जब सभी पान की दुकानें बंद हैं,  तमाकू मिलना दुर्लभ है अब का रोना,  यानी काहे को रोनामौका तो अच्छा है,  ये गंदा आदत त्याग कर दो 

आप सब सुधी लोगों से भी हाथ जोड़ विनति हैसुध में आएं,  
तमाकू,  खैनी,  पाऊचपानधुम्रपानऔर हांमदिरा पान भी छोड़ दें,  दंतावली चमकेगीकैंसर का पीछा छुटेगाघर बरबाद होने से 
बचेगा  
"कॉरोना के लॉकडाऊनका फायदा तो उठाएं |

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मौका वाकई में अच्छा है